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loner, hermit, uhhhh what else...? <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/lol.gif" alt="Lol" title="lol" />

or a loner wannabe?
[quote author="the gardener"]loner, hermit, uhhhh what else...? :ARRR:
Yes <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/applause.gif" alt="Applause" title="applause" />
Quote:loner, hermit, uhhhh what else...? <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/lol.gif" alt="Lol" title="lol" />

or a loner wannabe?
Not by choice, exactly....99% of peeps never know when to STFU. Compulsive babblers are exhausting and I prefer to avoid them.
More like a"Stranger in a strange land"
Quote:More like a"Stranger in a strange land"


well YEAH... <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/lol.gif" alt="Lol" title="lol" /> oops... I thought everyone feels like that.

I mean, doesn't everyone walk around muttering 'this is NOT my realm'?

lately amped up to 'I want to die' ... slipping out all over the place. Because THIS IS NOT MY REALM-THAT OF MURDEROUS THIEVES AND LIARS AND ALL WHO SOULLESSLY AID AND ABET THEM.
All we can hope to do in these times is to tend our own garden and reap what we have sown. May the universe bless all our harvests.
<img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/whistle.gif" alt="Whistle" title="whistle" /> ...a trick question, gardener ?

I mean...if you're online talking to other people then you're not alone.
What if you weren't able to tolerate temperatures much above freezing?
Then this would be the best medium, under the circumstances.

I think what you're REALLY talking about is actual...physical...realtime contact?
A lot of people can't deal with the smells and germs...the glaring sunlight......
What hope do THEY have for achieving relative normalcy???

Have you ever been in a totally online/phone relationship?
It's still real.
Quote:All we can hope to do in these times is to tend our own garden and reap what we have sown. May the universe bless all our harvests.


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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mjQPxtMv3vY

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Quote:Whistle ...a trick question, gardener ?

I mean...if you're online talking to other people then you're not alone.
What if you weren't able to tolerate temperatures much above freezing?
Then this would be the best medium, under the circumstances.

I think what you're REALLY talking about is actual...physical...realtime contact?
A lot of people can't deal with the smells and germs...the glaring sunlight......
What hope do THEY have for achieving relative normalcy???

Have you ever been in a totally online/phone relationship?
It's still real.


that is what's cool about online relationships... you can get up and walk away-go away for hours or days at a time and at the most someone may 'miss' you...wonder if you went to _____________ and the dogs, snakes, whatevers gotcha.

I suppose loner means 'never hardly ever having to explain jack squat let alone hardly ever having to say you're sorry'..

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Johnny Winter wrote two similar songs on his best album,
Second Winter,
they were called
I Hate Everybody
I Love Everybody

his version of Dylan's Hiway 61 is unsurpassed

God said to Abraham
Kill Me a son,
Abe said
Man you must be putting me on,
God said No,
and
Abe said What?
and God said,
You can do what you want Abe
but when you see me coming man....you had better run
Quote:that is what's cool about online relationships... you can get up and walk away-go away for hours or days at a time and at the most someone may 'miss' you...wonder if you went to _____________ and the dogs, snakes, whatevers gotcha.

I suppose loner means 'never hardly ever having to explain jack squat let alone hardly ever having to say you're sorry'..

I guess if that's how a person looks at it that way... <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/dunno.gif" alt="Dunno" title="dunno" />
Quote:[quote]that is what's cool about online relationships... you can get up and walk away-go away for hours or days at a time and at the most someone may 'miss' you...wonder if you went to _____________ and the dogs, snakes, whatevers gotcha.

I suppose loner means 'never hardly ever having to explain jack squat let alone hardly ever having to say you're sorry'..

I guess if that's how a person looks at it that way... Wub COOL!

yes, I do have friends that I am online with and at the same time talk on the phone with-we do peruse the board TOGETHER sometimes but not always.
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I'm not really a loner. Pharma drugs forced loner aspects on me. I recently joined a local Sailing Club and a Photo Society as well. I must say I found it challenging having been alone for a while. I found it was too easy to feel like I wanted to get angry and walk away just because "they don't understand what I'm saying". But then the better part of me took over. Why ignore those people ? Why pre judge them and assume I know what they believe ? Why isolate myself from the huge spectrum of human opinions that make us what we are ?
Quote:I'm not really a loner. Pharma drugs forced loner aspects on me. I recently joined a local Sailing Club and a Photo Society as well. I must say I found it challenging having been alone for a while. I found it was too easy to feel like I wanted to get angry and walk away just because "they don't understand what I'm saying". But then the better part of me took over. Why ignore those people ? Why pre judge them and assume I know what they believe ? Why isolate myself from the huge spectrum of human opinions that make us what we are ?

In my case it is because i have nothing to say to them, and they have nothing to say to me.

I find this true with my family even, they do not wish to discuss anything more complex than who won american idol, maybe an NFL team or if they really want to flex the old brain a few hours of cartoon network.

The notion of reading is lost on them, my brother is amazing, he never says anything about history that i would not correct if i thought he was worth the time. I do not know where he learned it from, but he quotes facts that are simply 180 degrees out of reality.

I find people who only want to 'lighten up' and actually have never bothered to learn very tedious, and ultimately not worth the time. The people I seek out are smarter, more learned than me, usually by a lot it's not hard, and I can and am willing to gain from knowing them.

This is why i carefully choose who i deal with, among the ignorant and unwashed such as myself i want to be associated with those trying to better themselves, not those happy to sit on the couch and wallow in it. I have no common basis for conversation with someone like my brother and most of the people i meet. I am always courteous but really don't want to meet them in the first place. I salute you for joining clubs, I have tried it, but i now realize that for me there is no point.

As to isolating from their opinions, maybe for you but if i want their opinions all i have to do is turn on the TV, preferably to an entertainment channel like VH-1 or BET, the news blurbs on there are as informed as these folks get so their opinions are formed by them.
In taking no offense to your last post Morbius, there are some folks who can not stand on their own; whether it be due to an injury, birth causation, or such...

Humans set me off. I try and try again to have face to face interaction and it seems that bad things happen when I do. Perhaps it is just my perception, perhaps it is more than that.


The only point I wish to portend here in this jem of a thread is this:

each and every spark has a potential and having learned this, intelligence is rather low on the scale of who is and is not meaningful, since in fact we are all meaningFull. Good day Mate,, aaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrggggggggggghhhhhhhhh
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I became a suspicious character to the masspeople whilst quite young, I just didn't know why so many in my midst were constantly so rude to me. I would really get rude comments about what I was doing when I started my 5th year of college.

Lol

I'm pretty well rounded, I can commune with others about 'normal' things pretty well-I don't slip up too much anymore and segue into any observations or obvious workings about anything. It is quite retarding to have the brain and impulse governor on all the time. They try to set me up all the time but I'm getting better and better at not biting... :wahya:

having some drugged and drunken tv 24/7 right winger bait me with their '9/11' revelations from seeing the movie... acting like they're in consensus <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/ninja.gif" alt=":wahya:" title="ninja" />

hahahahaa if it weren't for all you same kinds that we would never have the volume of meeting in real world-I don't know where I'd be at all mind wise today.

wheat/chaff and all that jazz. No doubt they'll be pulling the plug on this outrageous bit of equalizer called the internet. sooner than later-too encouraging and freeing for all the smart people or conscious and conscientious people of the WORLD. And since so many of us 'smart people' are damn near unemployable because they don't like US... $$ is a big hardship and if it goes like tv's cable will be unaffordable and since 'smart' people have a tendency to not think of criminal means to support their lifestyles just amping it up to the bootleg level will cut out a lot of smart people from accessing the internet. We've got to come up with our own internets somehow.

I've noticed the more sovereign the self the least likely the interest in gang or pack mentalities. The less autonomous the individual the more they need to be with a gang and never be left alone-to the degree of having the tv on 24/7 though they 'never really watch it, it's just on'.
i was for most of my life
Quote:i was for most of my life


and then?
got married @ 53
and she knows how you are and likes you anyway? Applause Applause

congratulations.
the first is most appropriate
Most definitely...
Quote:got married @ 53
LOL


after you admitted you were 21 three days prior <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/rofl.gif" alt="Rofl" title="rofl" />
After a self imposed exile of semi-hermitage, living in Alaska, I suddenly decided having only the very select few "Doers" in my inventory of friends wasn't quite enough.
People were just always surprising me.
Then it dawned on me..."The problem...was....me"
Stopped disliking folks for being inconsistent, unless very egregious, and started enjoying groups in small doses. Now I'm a downright extrovert!
Well, to a degree.
not sure where angelfire got the idea i was 21, except maybe for my desire for learning maybe.
sleeping thru the static I guess

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forgive me Almon <img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/hmm2.gif" alt="Hmm2" title="hmm2" />
AndreiThe1st
October 26, 2008

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TTrouble travels fast When youre specially designed for crash testing Or wearing wool sunglasses in the afternoon Come on and tell us what youre trying to prove Because its a battle when you dab...
rouble travels fast
When youre specially designed for crash testing
Or wearing wool sunglasses in the afternoon
Come on and tell us what youre trying to prove

Because its a battle when you dabble in war
You store it up, unleash it, then you piece it together
Whether the storm drain running rampant just stamp it
And send it to somebody whos pretending to care

Just cash in your blanks for little toy tanks
Learn how to use them, then abuse them and choose them
Over conversations relationships are overrated
I hated everyone said the sun

And so I will cook all your books
Youre too good looking and mistooken
You could watch it instead
From the comfort of your burning beds
Or you can sleep through the static

Who needs sleep when weve got love?
Who needs keys when weve got clubs?
Who needs please when weve got guns?
Who needs peace when weve gone above
But beyond where we should have gone?
We went beyond where we should have gone

Stuck between channels my thoughts all quit
I thought about them too much, allowed them to touch
The feelings that rained down on the plains all dried and cracked
Waiting for things that never came

Shock and awful thing to make somebody think
That they have to choose pushing for peace supporting the troops
And either youre weak or youll use brut force-feed the truth
The truth is we say not as we do

We say anytime, anywhere, just show your teeth and strike the fear
Of god wears camouflage, cries at night and drives a dodge
Pick up the beat and stop hogging the feast
Thats no way to treat an enemy

Well mighty mighty appetite
we just eat em up and keep on driving
Freedom can be freezing take a picture from the pretty side
Mind your manners wave your banners
What a wonderful world that this angle can see

But who needs to see what weve done?
Who needs please when weve got guns?
Who needs keys when weve got clubs?
Who needs peace when weve gone above
But beyond where we should have gone?
Beyond where we should have gone
We went beyond where we should have gone
Beyond where we should have gone
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Definately. Don't like large groups of people, only close friends. Prefer communing in the woods with nature and critters....and only live w/my winged companion....
Quote:The only point I wish to portend here in this jem of a thread is this:

each and every spark has a potential and having learned this, intelligence is rather low on the scale of who is and is not meaningful, since in fact we are all meaningFull.
That's true, and I have no tolerance for the ones who are uncomfortable with quiet and have to fill every moment with blabbering.

~Silence is golden. Duct tape is silver~
Smoke

Anyway I am having the weirdest experience. I am house-sitting, actually, i haven't gone home yet from house-sitting for my ex-wife. Yea she's back, that's all weird but not the point. It's been at least 5 years since i divorced her, and in the kitchen i found my old pot for making Iced tea, under the cabinet was the pitcher and in the cabinet were the tea bags. The tea bags have a coupon inside the lid that expired 12/31/03.

The more things change the more they stay the same, it's like visiting my old life.

very strange.

you may now continue your regularly scheduled thread. Peace

Oh yea, bout that stuff anglefire posted, all that nice stuff about everyone having meaning. The ones i would beg to differ on are the ones that haven't accepted that life is change, it doesn't have to be dramatic but if you don't 'learn something new every day', if you don't get out of bed and try to be more than you were the day before then really I am not sure I see the value. I wouldn't grade by I.Q., a quick way to lose points with me is to pretend to know more than you do, but to not want to learn anything is a bit of a 'sin'.

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